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    1/31/2009

    Personalty test..yup, i did one ....

    Decided i would do one of these personalty tests. Wasnt going to share the results but haa donot keep much from my friends so may aswell show you all the results....

    mandie,   31 yr old woman

    Similarity factors-
    Romantic Impulsivity
    R
    Risk Taker

    Personal Energy
    A
    High Energy

    Outlook
    O
    Optimistic

    Predictability
    V
    Seeks Variety


    Similarity Type Description
    An RAOV is an unleashed personality. There is nothing in this personality type that holds back. This person is willing to put it all on the line, act quickly, expect success and if they fail, expect success the next time, or certainly, eventually. They also like change, because a changing environment means new opportunity, another chance, or an even better mate. This person doesn't want a partner that will hold them back and would probably match well with someone who is a charge forward person. At the very least, not timid.

    Complementry Factors

    Flexibility
    F
    Flexible

    Decision Making Style
    C
    Compromiser

    Emotionality
    T
    Temperate

    Self-Nurturing
    E
    Extrovert


    Complementary Type Description
    This person is the universal connector. They get along with just about everyone, except possibly a serious introvert, if they are an extreme extrovert. But, they will do well with almost anyone, except someone looking for a highly structured life with a dominating type who will direct the relationship. This person might enjoy someone who is a bit more intense and more dominant than them. They are flexible enough to meet the challenge! In any case, this person has the tools to be a great partner: They are not insecure in relationships, like to work with someone on creating a life together, don't get upset easily, seek intimacy and open up their heart to a partner. What's not to love? This person has to be careful to not let the occasional dominating kind of person mistake their good will for weakness.

    Smile....



    1/21/2009

    Ricochet to ''Jutone Solitaire''

    This page was updated on 20th January 2009

     


    Puppies Available.-

    Jutone & Felsental, for quality puppies from top German Bloodlines

     

    Venke's baby 001 cropped.jpg

    This is the only puppy in our last litter. She has been registered as "Jutone Solitaire" and will be going to her new home shortly.

    Around  6th Feb 2009

    Renamed Solitaire has she was the only female born out of  the litter !

    I am  already down a new washing basket, and one my best duvet's!!!   This little pup i can see is going to cost me has much if not more than the 3 girls , and be spoilt from the minute she comes to us. 

    Google-

    www.jutone.co.uk/index.php?f=data_litters_born&a=0

     

    Oh bugger it who can resist those 'take me home eyes' ...if  only guys had those eyes lol Open-mouthed

     

     

     

    1/16/2009

    A new female to add to the family...

    In 3 weeks time anyway....!
     
    It started , not sure how but  all started here  news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/devon/7827379.stm
     
    In 3 weeks time around 6th feb, will have a new addition to the family, of the four legged kind (i aint that stupid for it too be any other kind)   Open-mouthed ... The girls are extatic that they finally got me to give in, yup soft touch or what haha, but that little puppy is going to be one hell of a bonus,....not only is she going to become a part of the family ....(so long has little one doesnt stick her in the washer  which is how she thinks puppys have a bath at the momment) Surprised...but she will also get the middle one out of this fear of dogs which is so bad she would rather go in the road and not think of if any cars are coming just to get out of the way of any dog! ...Crazy idea at this momment in time, hmm maybe but if my plan works out then be well worth it all in the long run .
     
    Photo of the puppy-  Taken 12th  January 09,  By the puppys current owner!


     

    1/14/2009

    Dreams!..What exactlly are they?....

    Chatting with some CAD friends we got totaly of topic and onto 'our dreams'
     
    Dreams ,i always thought was something you had when your asleep but your mind is in a subconscious state, something that feels has though it is actually happening but in fact you are asleep, it isnt untill you awake that you realize it was all just a dream and 9/10 times go back to sleep right?....well that is what i thought having a dream was!
     
    It seems that a person can also want to 'have something', 'do something', or even 'want to achieve something' and that is called having a dream too.
     
    Now here is my confusion!
     
    My aims and goals in life started when i was 13.
    my dad took me to an Architects and Design exhibition at Doncaster Racecourse,
    From that day on i always had one focus in life, ...one aim and one goal...To work in the design field! Architect/Interior Design.
     
    My plan of being where i am today at 31 didnt quite work out, when it came down to the 'do i have children now and work on my career in design when i hit 30 (which i did) or do i choose to have the career first and just has that may be taking off then have children?!....i decided to have children in my 20's (22 to be exact) and carry on career wise with my one goal in life when they are all at full time school , to work in the design field  which is what i am doing today (Was not planning on being mum to 3, and certainly wasnt ever planning on being a single mum to the 3 either, but thats life!, )...So far my goals, and aims that i decided upon right back when i was 13years old are today slotting very nicely into place. Smile
     
    So the way i see it is -I DO NOT HAVE 'DREAMS IN LIFE' I HAVE AIMS, GOALS AND A TARGET OF WHERE I WANT TO BE....Am i strange? or weird? are my goals and aims  in life what you and others call  your dreams in life? 

     

    Hmm  this one  is going to really niggle at me!! 

    1/12/2009

    So far ....So Good....But dam that facebook!

    Never thought i would actually manage it tbh, but yup so far i have not logged into msn during the day...ooo think i did for half hour one dinnertime few days ago hmm, (am sure  msn friends will put me straight haha)....having a break that could come under, or maybe it more comes under the word 'skiving' ??, Good thing is though, i logged back out again and got back on with the CADwork Open-mouthed

    Have not switched the Xbox on, nope not even for 10mins too send a quick ''hi'' message to any of  my gaming friends on the 360, ...only time it has been on is when the girls have wanted to watch a DVD , the tv in the frontroom being watched by one daughter, the tv in the girls room being watched by another, leaving the tv in my room having to be watched by the third daughter,...it saves on rows that way and i can get on with my CADwork!!  Although the temptation sure was there to NOT switch off the 360, after all what harm would a quick message to gaming friends do?, .... I DIDN'T give into the temptation!.. (For  my gaming friends out there ''i am NOT ignoring you, even though i had the 360 switched on''.... Hmmm maybe i should get a tv for the kitchen then temptation is totally 100% ruled out!  

    My week hasnt gone all to plan...

    Lastnight ( Saturday) i had to appologize to a guy i been chattng with on msn since just before xmas and let him down on meeting at the end of Jan,.. poor guy had taken 2 weeks of work, was going to be traveling down here over 3hrs via train, all to meet 'just me'...Still feel bad, he was a great guy, got on well whilst chatting and laughing for hours when he called the mobby, had a laugh via those calls and txt, over msn  but am just too busy with the CADwork and coursework at momment . So rather than let him waste his cash coming all this way i explained the why, and he thankfully accepted it and was happy that i had not wasted his time off work has like he said so many others out there would of done,... it didnt seem fair or right for me to know that i am at the momment totally on overload with CADwork and coursework, to then let a great guy come all this way and then tell him later when he travelled all the way home that 'I enjoyed being with him but....' So i did the right thing... let another girl out there have the chance with, what i know is a  great guy, hope he finds that 'special' girl he is searching for... I know to let go was the right thing to do !! 

    Has well as the above i have from Friday done little if not none at all on the CADwork, why? well it goes smething like this-

    1- Take 2 divorced parents who are in one of those hmm, lets say 'difficult' relationships - i say 'difficult' because it is a case of 'they cannot live with each other, but hell no can they not live without each other either!

    2- One parent is a member of a well known site AKA -Facebook....and so is the other!  

    3- One parent (the oldish dear) decides to add the other parent (the old man) onto her 'friends list', and have him change his status to ''in a relationship''...has they are back together so why not??

    4- One parent (you can probably guess which one) then decides to go mad, is mad the word or is it more 'Facebook addicted'?...via being constantly logged in there!!,...like more than half the world... you would think to do what most of us who are members on Facebook do, add people you have no idea who they are and neverspeak to to your 'friends list' just to bombard them with application after application and  naughty poke them 225+ times per day ...all in the name of a laugh and abit of fun right?

    FACEBOOK APPLICATIONS ARE NOT ABIT OF FUN OR A JOKE WHEN YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP!!

    5- Take one parent with the facebook addiction who is logging in to see who (mainly what female) is posting what, when, and how many times a day to the other parents wall to wall,...and god help the other parent if it is read that sexy linguire,handcuffs BDSM or anything else in that related topic have been sent to a female via a Facebook or 3rd party application,... opening gifts,... finding matches on 'meet me' getting e-mails on 'are you interested' are not acceptable and a deffo 'no no' ..'All in the name of abit fun and a joke or not'!...Moral of that being ''You are in a relationship so why accept all the sexy inferenced applications?  Why click on meet people?  Why open gifts from others on 'are you interested ? To the  parent who is reading all the above why are these applications on other parents Facbook at all when in a relationship with the parent who is constantly logged into Facebook!

    6- Take said parent,who is logged into Facebook ....constantly!  Add that with the other parents ex being on 'friends list' plus that parents wall to wall and all applications sent via the one parents ex ...Facebook row no 175 on the horizon!!! ... Warning to ALL who are in a relationship and addicted to Facebook to duck, or at least move out the way switch your mobby off for at least a month..or 6 when the current partner adds you on their 'friends list' only to see every naughty item, sexy gift, and naughty poke ect sent via application  via your ex and many a female/male out there!

    Too be deleted or not too be deleted is a very good question!!! 

    8- Take the one parent who is constantly logged into Facebook with the scenario of 'that ex can get deleted for a start and ALL the applications that been sent via that ex too' add that with 'ALL those applications that go further than a smile..a pillow fight..or a good morning can get deleted whilst your at it or else there is no me and you' ...then throw in the other parent with one single yet stood by word ...'NO'!!

    Has of Friday night i have more a hate towards Facebook!

     

    Not only was i on the phone most of thursday evening trying to explain to one parent how Facebook works and that facebook is just abit of fun and really should be taken that way,...ok, the other parent shouldnt be sending sexy stuff to any female when in a relationship that has the inferance in a sex way or a 'want to bed you' way no ...but then i did explain to the one parent that half the people on a persons 'friends list' do not even live in the UK....That made no difference!

    END RESULT OF THURSDAY EVENING-

    One parent (the oldish dear) decides that the pub would be the best place to go sort this out leaving me, dad and bro from 2230 till 0250 wondering where the hell she has gone at that time of night, freezing cold outside and no way of contacting her,...she stubbles home and types a msn message to bro saying 'i am back'... Cool i can go bed then!

    .... and the Facebook row continued parent to parent throughout thursday night and was still carrying on late friday morning!

     

    BY THIS TIME ME AND MY BRO HAD TOTALY HAD OUR 5 DAYS SOLID OF IT AND DECIDED NUFF WAS DEFFO ENOUGH!!

    Friday evening-

    Have you ever had one parent on mobby down one ear, and the other parent on house phone in other ear?....try rolling a fag whilst doing that, oh yeah it is possible takes nearly 20mins to accomplish but possible and smokable too Open-mouthed

     

    There was not a chance in hell that either of the oldish folks was going to be continuing this Facebook row into the weekend, so over msn or not i made the oldish dear sit and sort it out one way or the other with the old man...and me on the phone whilst they did....0200...0400...0600...0700, the girls stood at side of me wide awake, all came and went i didnt care there was noway i was getting off the phone till it had been sorted between them both one way or another!

    END RESULT FINALLY -

    The oldish dear had to accept that even though you delete a friend it does not delete their name from any applications they sent!

    Also accepting that noway on this crazy planet was the old man going to delete all the sex inferanced applications....moral of that being, 'they are abit of fun, accept it or dont bother with the you and me because there is no you and me' 

     

    Haaa but...

    Whilst this was accepted via the oldish dear after an hour or three it was not without its drawbacks!

    The old man had to agree to give ALL passwords to his email accounts and Facebook to the oldish dear, go over her house and put them in so she saw he had given the correct passwords or else the 'there is no you and me' was coming right back at him like a bommarang!

     

    Sunday has thankfully been quiet, mum is at dads and all seems to be going ok, although tomorrow is a different day, and if with that different day brings more Facebook rows, then i am having my phones disconected and bro is shipping out on a more permanant basis!!

     

    Rightio am off to my bed and back to the CADwork after i taken the girls to school in the morning , Smile

     

     

     

     

       

            


    10 days on and so far so good...

    1/2/2009

    To you all on livespace...Finally got to blog it

    HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL WHO HAVE POPPED IN MY LITTLE PLACE RIGHT HERE ON LIVE SPACE,AND MADE ME SMILE EVERYTIME I LOG IN with your posts Blogs or GB Graphics to just say hi
     
    HOPE YOU ALL HAD A LOVELY NEW YEAR,...! 
     
    ANYONE FOR NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS THEN?? Open-mouthed...
     
     
     
     
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    ....Especially annoying when done whilst speaking on the phone, haha! The worst part is when you have no idea you actually said it!

    MY NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS-

    1- When i say the words 'i am doing coursework' to not then go and log into  Live space/MSN and sit chatting on and off to mates and online friends, ...more on than off -resulting in me just sitting and chatting, and then wondering why i am getting no dam further with coursework !! -

    *NOTE*- when logged into MSN and you see the words 'am doing coursework' DONT CHAT WITH ME!.... The plan is if doing coursework and you dont chat ,over time i will just get fed up with logging in  to chat and get on with coursework has should be doing! (Thats that 1 sorted...maybe!) Open-mouthed

     

    2- When i say the words 'i am doing coursework' and you dont chat with me on Live Space/MSN  with that then resulting in me getting bored out my  bleeding nut and switching on the xbox 360 - Resulting in me siting and texting messages backwards and forwards inbetween gaming  all day instead of doing what i should be doing and again wondering why i am getting no dam further with coursework!   

    *NOTE*- When you see the words 'am doing coursework' on MSN but you know i am gaming on the 360, ...GIVE ME A BLEEDING KICK UP THE ASS WILL YOU?!....and instead of sending the  message'how you doing fancy a game of COD4 ect .....when you finished rainbow six?' send me one that says the words  'COURSEWORK, GET ON WITH IT NOW' of course you can add the fancy a game of COD4.... on the end ....but then if doing coursework i would never finish Rainbow six game and so never get to play on live with you, hmmm (WILL work a way round this one...at some point)! Confused   

    3- To spend more time OFF this dam net!!...And has my CAD work is done on the computer and the temptation of just logging into MSN/facebook/any other dam site i am a member of not associated with design in any way shape or form, is there right in front of me, and such a dam habit now....this is going to be a very hard one to break!!

    * Note* - DONT give into temptation....! (yeah, totally ignore all temptation, that should do it....i hope)!!

    4- Take the girls out once or twice a month for a meal,.. to Woodlands, on that day out on the train like we used to do!

    *NOTE*- STOP putting coursework/CADwork  the net, other 'stuff' before the girls for at least once if not twice out of every month, Spend more time than i do now with the girls instead of sat infront of this dam computer or stood infront of a drawing board!. (Too cold to do this one right now, summer i will start...hmm, is that an excuse?...and then come summer it will never of happened)??   ....NO!, i got to do that now, just think on the how  is the hard part!

    5- To hope all that pop in my little place here on Live space all the best,... To my friends, hope you find that special someone,... and those  friends that have found  that special someone continue to have what they have today...
       .....And for me.?..To start 2009 has i mean to go on!