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    10/26/2008

    How does a parent/ anybody differentiate something they saw has innocent?

    When is a parent classed as failing to protect their child or children? or the person who saw something happen in the street to a child or children, classed has failing to protect , because they never said anything at the time?

    Something that you see has innocent !, -E.G- Children playing in the street a child trips and falls over, a man walking past sees this, goes over to pick the child up, make sure that child is alright, you are walking a little behind see this happen, do not question him, The man sees you have seen him help the child, You say nothing to the man or the children, carry on  past, after all he has gone over to see if that child is alright, no need for you to stop right?, no need for you to say anything, all looks innocently done,  the man carries on with what he was doing before he helped the child, no harm has been done to the child via what you saw with your own eyes, right ?....

    But what if that scenario was different?!...What if something you saw has innocent, ...( i.e- the man helping the child, and then walking on) A few days later even months later, that child says what you saw happen but adds on the end something totally different to what you saw, when the rest of the children are asked  all the children agree with it, then later on, that child goes on to change it back to what you originally saw and again all children agree!....

     Do you believe the child/children and  report what the child has said, even though they changed it back later on? , That child  could be telling the truth right? and has just said it to you, so what if that child was to say it to someone else?.... Another question.... what are you actually reporting???

     It could be that that child is just saying it! Did that child realize after saying the bad story  that that was a lie, so then changed it back at which point the rest of the children realized they should to, Do you has a parent or just a person report it on the basis of, What if that child is telling the truth, even though what you yourself saw with your own eyes was innocent!,

     The problem is you do not know 100% in your own mind,.... because you carried on walking !!

    In today's world  where the Authorities aim in the UK is to go at everything like a bull in a china shop and ask questions 6 months later, especially when it comes to children!!...How do you differentiate  what you see has innocently done with, or towards a child, from failing to protect because you has a parent or as just a person, never reported it at the time it happened?

    How in today's world do you differentiate what is innocently done via a man,  from the possibility of,  if that man had not seen that you had seen him  he could of done  something to that child or children then or at a later date??

    10/25/2008

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    10/16/2008

    They said what hahaha...

    Funny things the girls have said recently---

    1. (little one)- See those crisps mummy, can i have them? (Me)- What happened to please?? (little one)- Oh, it ran away!....                                                                            
    2. (Little one)- Mummy, my legs are so tired they not here anymore! ....(said whilst walking down the hill)IMG_0177
    3. (middle one on way to school few weeks back)-  Mummy what you going to be doing today...or you still thinking about it!.....
    4. (middle one )- When you going shopping mummy? (me)- When i dropped you 3 off at school why? (middle one)- Because i'm still waiting for you to buy me that nice daddy!                                                                  *carrys on walking to school wondering where middle one got the impression from that you go the supermarket to buy daddys....I'll have that one on special offer and can i bring him back for refund if he don't suit LOL.
    5. (Older one after school few days ago)- We been  learning about the kids in Africa, been putting things into shoe boxes to send to then (me)- That's nice, what did you learn...anything interesting?  (older one)- Not  really mummy, just how to put silly things into a box, decorate it and stick a label on it, how interesting is that!...
    6. (older one few hours later at home)- i been  thinking about those little kiddies in Africa, they don't have alot do they?, (me)- nope they don't, (older one)-so if you send them our toys and clothes,  and send them two (little one & middle one) has well, do you think the kiddies will smile? (me laughing) i cannot do that geez (older one)- Well if you carn't do that then what can you do? *sits thinking on that one* 
    7. (middle one lastnight)- Mummy you know when you die and go with daddy and Maddy's mum to be with the angels, who will look after us three? (me)- You three will be all grown up girls and able to look after yourselves when that time comes for me hopefully. (middle one)-  Well you do know just one thing don't you, that i love you right to Australia and back mummy! 
    10/1/2008

    Maybe a lesson to you all out there....

    Sometimes we don't think !,  Sometimes we randomly just add ppl to MSN, well what harm can it be? no harm in just chatting with someone from other side of uk, or even further afield eh, not like your going to meet them right?
     Sometimes we just see the net has a place, that so long has one person is sat one side and you are sat the other, then it doesn't matter what is said, It's just words on a computer screen right?.... 
     
    Wrong!!
     
    I did just that, Beginning of September i added a guy from live space onto my MSN, on the thought of, 'oh what harm can it be'? 
    It can be ALOT of harm let me tell you!!..
     
    Jamie this guys called...or is he?? (who knows)
    25 years old...he says?? (ok)
    North london area...well thats a big place aint it??  (so is devon )!
    Spells his 'that' has 'dat' and his 'then' has 'den'..., thats not chav lingo my mistake, that would be classed has 'street talk'..apparently!
     
    He's a soldier too, and god does he travel !....cannot make up his mind if he's a officer 3Lt in the RAF (call me stupid, but not aware of such a rank)?? ...in the infantry when it suits , and in the Artillery on saturdays, spends his sundays doing hand to hand combat, running up a side of a mountain and paintballing.. HIS words not mine!!   
     
    Keep reading the BEST IS YET TO COME....
     
    See this guy jamie, soldier come street cred youth in his spare time, on exerises and on leave, dont spend his time like most soldiers i know with family (although he lives with his sister), oh no he  spends it with  his friends, apparently the street is 'his roots' and 'his roots' or a fair lot of them are  joined up in the military, hmmm, confused yet? yeah i was too, so i asked him 'stuff' and so wished i hadn't !. ...I is so fecking good at playing it dumb, no dumber than what you mates are used to hahaha,  when necessary.
     
     Anyway 'Jamie'  i guess has i was asking too many questions all at once spills out with ' yeah north south west and east fight in manner park'  huh?  where the hell that come from? i thought, asked him some more, and gets 'every man in da ends comes to the postcode war' ... Haaa suddenly the braincell woke up of mine and the thought of 'shite who the hell is this guy...Rambo?? so i asked some more , (quite like Rambo i do) and how many manner parks is there in london?? well you know us females for asking too many questions, Open-mouthed  ...
     
    Better not say much else BUT will say relevant people have been imformed,
     
     'Eat & Drink Today Fore We Die Tommorrow'... Well cannot miss the guy and  nice choice of words tattoed across both his forearms !, infact can actually say its bleeding good words he has tattoed  across his forearms so dam true when you think about it.....
     
    But i dont think he has it tattoed on his arms for the soldiering reasons, (although he's stupidly in his uniform  in his photo he sent) nah more 'his roots' than the soldiering  Have the pic of tatt  only cannot e-mail the dam thing cause i get this back has a reply!
     
     It is the policy of the MPS that:

    MPS personnel (or agents working on behalf of the MPS) must not use
    MPS systems to author, transmit or store documents such as electronic mail (e-mail) messages or attachments:

    *  containing racist, homophobic, sexist, defamatory, offensive,
       illegal or otherwise inappropriate material;
    Hmmm to me it's just words but hey what do i know!"
     
    So
     
     
     
    MAYBE it be a little lesson to you all out there, you NEVER know who the hell your adding, 
    Jamie's tatts<
     Chat log- Think thats the lot,  
     
     

    Session Start: 27 September 2008

    • Courage is being scared out of your mind,but doing it anyway!x JUST BRO TO COME HOME SAFE NOW! (mandie-******@hotmail.co.uk)
    • jamie (jamie_***hotmail.com)
    (14:43) jamie: u k
    (14:44) Courage is being scared out of your mind,but doing it anyway!x JUST BRO TO COME HOME SAFE NOW! has changed his/her personal message to "Look after them  you lot, ...Dont youtube it his missis WILL go nuts,am warning ya guys!!:S"
    (14:44) Courage is being scared out of your mind,but doing it anyway!x JUST BRO TO COME HOME SAFE NOW! has changed his/her status to Be Right Back
    (14:44) Courage is being: hey up there you
    (14:44) Courage is being: hows ya weekend going?
    (14:44) jamie: bad lol
    (14:45) Courage is being: ohh gee how? its not even sat night yet you ok?
    (14:45) jamie: yeah
    (14:45) jamie: jus gettin ready for da biggest fight of da year
    (14:45) Courage is being: huh?
    (14:46) jamie: every man in da ends comes to the postcode war
    (14:46) Courage is being: haaa this postcode war, i'm not up to speed with it tbh
    (14:46) Courage is being: heard alittle bout it but dont have a clue
    (14:47) Courage is being: one side of london comes against otherside or something like that right?
    (14:49) Courage is being: hmmm ok, so no answer ...alright cool nothing to do with me tbh realkly eh
    (14:49) jamie: soz what did u ask
    (14:49) Courage is being: that above ohhh
    (14:50) jamie: say it again soz
    (14:50) Courage is being: one side of london comes against otherside or something like that right?
    (14:50) jamie: yeah north south west and east fight in manner park
    (14:51) Courage is being: glad i live in devon sometimes hahaha
    (14:51) jamie: nah its good here
    (14:51) Courage is being: yeah
    (14:51) jamie: deres like a fight every day
    (14:51) jamie: it starts at 10 o clock
    (14:52) jamie: and dependin if every man in north (my ends ) (ends is like a slum ) fight be over in like 5 hours
    (14:53) jamie: so what u up 2
    (14:55) Courage is being: well if its 10 tonight its going to be dark, how ya going to fight in the dark for 5hrs?
    (14:55) jamie: u jus attack who eva goes for u
    (14:56) Courage is being: haaa no idea tbh
    (14:56) jamie: kk lol
    (14:58) Courage is being: sorry the gals wanted to go out to play
    (14:58) Courage is being: not doing too much my side really
    (14:58) jamie: kk
    (14:58) Courage is being: been shopping
    (14:58) jamie: what u byin
    (14:59) Courage is being: and really should be doing coutrsework but hey oh, ...sit and chat for abit
    (14:59) Courage is being: food hahaha
    (14:59) jamie: kk
    (14:59) Courage is being: and a vac
    (14:59) jamie: what
    (14:59) Courage is being: vacume cleaner ya know
    (14:59) jamie: kk no clothes den
    (14:59) Courage is being: nah
    (15:00) jamie: kk
    (15:00) Courage is being: am not a clothes shopper kind of girl
    (15:00) jamie: kk
    (15:00) jamie: what u shop for den
    (15:00) Courage is being: rather spend cash on what i need or save up if i see something i like ...saving at mo fot tv
    (15:00) jamie: kk
    (15:00) Courage is being: food for fridge and freezer
    (15:01) Courage is being: you know this fight, whenever its happening,..gee do you have to be involved? or you have no choice
    (15:02) jamie: all my mates go every year and i have to back them
    (15:02) jamie: cos dey do the same for me
    (15:02) jamie: y / u worrieng
    (15:02) Courage is being: hmmm, guess the one of your busy wont work then
    (15:02) jamie: what do u mean
    (15:03) Courage is being: cause you a nicish kinda guy , just think theres more than fighting in life
    (15:03) Courage is being: you do what i guess you have to do..i dont know you, dont know much about what your saying  
    (15:03) jamie: yeah but in london dats how man do things instead of talkin so it goes on for fun
    (15:04) Courage is being: postcode war is fun...blimey 
    (15:04) jamie: yeah but loads of guys get stabbed
    (15:04) jamie: shot
    (15:04) jamie: or killed
    (15:05) Courage is being: hmm, but still cannot work how you all do this in the dark
    (15:05) Courage is being: but then i never been to mannar park so no idea if it got lights or not
    (15:06) jamie: evaery group yeah will wear there own colours
    (15:06) jamie: and theres lights there
    (15:06) jamie: last year 15,000 people paked in the park so its gunna be good 2day
    (15:07) Courage is being: you sound like ya talking about some boxing fight that gets out of hand there hahaha
    (15:07) jamie: nah all the youth jus come and figh t
    (15:08) Courage is being: crazy if you ask me, but then i dont know guess its part of living in london eh
    (15:08) jamie: yeah
    (15:09) Courage is being: so you wont be out clubbing tonight then rofl...unlike most
    (15:09) jamie: nah everyone will be there
    (15:10) Courage is being: why? haaa guess its a youth thing so all youths will meet in mannor park
    (15:10) jamie: yeah and then jus fight
    (15:11) Courage is being: hmm,  so what happens at the end of this fight then..you just go home?
    (15:11) Courage is being: if your still alive to go home that is eh
    (15:11) jamie: yeah or the plice get us so we run
    (15:12) Courage is being: haaa things just added up from our second convo, when you said about you having to fight the police and you ran with your mate
    (15:12) jamie: yh
    (15:13) Courage is being: when you say prepareing yourself what you mean? the gym? or the ppl?
    (15:13) jamie: ppl i got 350 peple followin me and i hoe to get anuva 50
    (15:19) Courage is being: finsbury park.. i got a mate lives near there is that the park you meaning?
    (15:19) jamie: nah manner park central london
    (15:20) Courage is being: least i know my mate is'nt involved then
    (15:20) Courage is being: shame you have to be
    (15:20) jamie: i can choose
    (15:20) Courage is being: choose? in what way
    (15:21) jamie: i dont have to go
    (15:23) Courage is being: then would'nt it be best not to?
    (15:24) Courage is being: is there a manor park in central london? i thought there was fleet, hamshire
    (15:25) Courage is being: its just my mate the one who lives near a manor park but he calls it something else, he never said there was a manor park in central london thats why i ask
    (15:25) jamie: it central g2g seyya
    (15:26) Courage is being: huh? really no idea sorry
    (15:26) jamie: g2g
    (15:26) Courage is being: is that a postcode? or the area or you got 2 go?
    (15:27) Courage is being: confused i am sorry
    (15:27) jamie: secet
    (15:27) jamie: secret
    (15:27) Courage is being: haa ok, cool
    (15:27) Courage is being: saves my braincell getting a headach hahaha
    (15:31) Courage is being: feel like a jack-in-box i do today...sit here,then got to go answer door for the gals tut
    (15:35) jamie: how u feelin
    (15:56) Courage is being: sorry had to sort girls out...feeling ok, you ok ?..guess you gone now i took so long with sorting the girls out
    (15:57) jamie: im here
    (15:57) Courage is being: cool
    (15:58) Courage is being:  so hows the evening out go?
    (15:59) jamie: yh im ok gettin ready
    (15:59) jamie: got 1 Q
    (15:59) Courage is being: yup
    (15:59) Courage is being: ask whatever
    (15:59) jamie: kk u feelin horny
    (16:00) Courage is being: rofl..nah
     
     
    (20:39) jamie: then y u sayin it shite
    (20:43) Courage is being: you say your in the Artiliary...if i believe it then well what you think i should of done eh?....i got to not believe it

    Session Start: 28 September 2008

    (11:20) jamie: y u think im in artillary
    (11:20) Courage is being: cause you said that
    (11:20) Courage is being: along with 3rd lt
    (11:20) Courage is being: and infantry
    (11:21) jamie: nah i never sed artillary
    (11:21) Courage is being: so can you see why i said its like chatting with two seperate ppl but the same person
    (11:21) jamie: im aibourne infantry
    (11:21) jamie: yh
    (11:21) Courage is being: your whoever you say you are eh
    (11:21) Courage is being: is that the 100% truth?
    (11:21) jamie: i swear i am airbourne infantry
    (11:21) jamie: 100
    (11:22) Courage is being: hmm, and your an officer?
    (11:22) jamie: staff sargent
    (11:22) jamie:  1 under lautenant so nearly
    (11:22) Courage is being: haaa you said officer 3rd lt in our first chat thats why i ask
    (11:22) jamie: did i soz
    (11:22) Courage is being: rofl..1 under is Good nuff then eh
    (11:23) jamie: yh
    (11:23) Courage is being: nah its cool
    (11:23) Courage is being: apparently the 'in thing' is to get a girl so confuzzled she dont know who the hell she chatting with anymore
    (11:23) Courage is being: hahaha..its ok kinda get used to it
    (11:23) jamie: what do u meean
    (11:24) Courage is being: just j/king with ya
    (11:24) Courage is being: anyways whay you up to?
    (11:24) jamie: workin on base
    (11:24) Courage is being: and your leave stretches along time dont it ? LOL
    (11:24) Courage is being: haaa
    (11:24) Courage is being: ignore the above then
    (11:24) jamie: what do u mean streatche salong time
    (11:25) jamie just sent you a nudge.
    (11:26) Courage is being: you said ages ago you was on leave....
    (11:26) jamie: yeah i went back this mornin
    (11:26) Courage is being: and i did'nt remember you saying that you was bk at work, so just asking
    (11:26) Courage is being: cool
    (11:27) Courage is being: so you got something to do then now...working hahaha
    (11:27) jamie: im not realli workin jus trainin coz i have to
    (11:27) Courage is being: yup got to be done eh
    (11:27) jamie: freak
    (11:28) Courage is being: hahaha... thats mine LOL
    (11:28) jamie: lol
    (11:29) Courage is being: must be great to be at work and able to log into msn, ...
    (11:29) jamie: yeah i got hr break so usin my lap
    (11:30) Courage is being: haaa breaks dont ya just luv em
    (11:30) jamie: lol
    (11:30) jamie: Sent a wink: 
    (11:31) Courage is being: well i turffed the gals out to play....how long that will last is anyones guess but for now all is looking Good
    (11:39) Courage is being: so what has work got in store for you today?
    (11:40) Courage is being: anything remotely exciting or just the usual sit on ass doing SFA with ya feet up on desk hahaha
    (11:40) jamie: hand to hand combat runnin up mountin and paintbal what i do 2day
    (11:41) jamie: whats sfa
    (11:41) Courage is being: hand to hand rofl.....
    (11:41) Courage is being: ooo my braincell went in over mode then hahaha
    (11:41) jamie: yh
    (11:42) Courage is being: SFA= sweet  Feck all
    (11:44) Courage is being: exciting day then, playing with err your hands, running up oneside of a err mountain and down the other (thrilling that'll be for ya) and playing with paint hmmm
    (11:45) Courage is being: rofl..does that lot come under the word 'fun'
    (11:45) jamie: yh lol