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    2/28/2009

    My livespace SEEMS to be back on this planet once again...

    Did anyone who dropped in to my crazy place right here notice that half way down all was stuck?
     
     'stuck' = My blogs before 2 days ago had gone to see through so all you could see was the background picture with words, not black background like y/days blog or i am hoping this one...hmm will wait and see,
    'Stuck'= i couldn't re-arrange modules past the half way down my space mark, couldn't move them, all was stuck on left hand side.
    'Stuck'=  Any blogs before y/days are unreadable...just vanished, unless you use the 'find blogs the easy way' module above....
     
    Haa well least i managed to sort it, took me all morning, Alvin passing my reply to his unusfull email in response of 'HEEElllppp meee' onto nardia from spaces help.... (i wonder if that was because i asked him  'do microsoft employ you to sit behind that computer looking pretty and eating crisps all day'  Help me does not come to send links that are unclickable and nothing in the way of help for my space.
     
    Anyway all sorted, i am happy once again, change of layout on my space but hey oh looking good i would say... off to pick daughter up from her friends party in half hour then back to the usual design stuff, mixed in with 3 girls and a dog.
     
    Haaaa the joys lol 
    2/27/2009

    Why do we realize we have gone wrong when it is too late?

    Maybe i am losing the plot...Maybe i just didn't feel a bump on the back of my head when i slipped on the stairs other day (too bothered in if Solitaire was ok)....or maybe i am just getting so bored out my braincell with this research on materials that i am not even bothering to read fully the question asked of me. (skim reading is not always good)!
     
    I spend ALL day yesterday till late evening doing research on supplers...manufactures...inporters of different kinds of wood.
    Researched the be all and end all of wood, put it all into microsoft word, what i had written i read and re-read for mistakes to the point where my braincell was exploding with pain, and out came two headache tablets, i gave in eventually and went to bed with the feeling of thakfully i got all that out of the way! (wont get marked down for spelling mistakes) Yippeeeee!
     
    Drops the girls off at school  this morning with the usual 'school NOW!,... have a nice day' has  i booted them out the taxi one by one, waved to them has they vanish through the school doors, and on i went to do the shopping at Sainsburys.
     
    Feeling of haaa i no need to zoom around the isles, throwing things in has i go, i have finished question 1, catching up nicely, so can slooowly have a nice walk around and do my shopping . ...
     
    Hour and half maybe even two hours later i am home, shopping is away, Solitaire is fussed and i sit down to start question 2 ....
    ONLY ERRR I RE- READ QUESTION ONE AGAIN, THIS TIME PROPERLY!!!
     
    Now have to scrap question 1 has it is actually asking me for a index of softwood and hardwood seperatly, and to pick ONLY THE DAM ONE not ALL ... Arrgghhh right back to the start.
     
     
    Still i picked up some nice wooden photo frames, for 99p, down from £9.99 so was worth the slow shopping  i guess
     
    oh well back to it from question 1 AGAIN  Disappointed
       

    DO reward for :

     

    ·         reward sitting quietly (sit for attention) 

    ·         encourage play with dogs own toys

    ·         reward the dog for being quiet ("good quiet")

    ·         feed the dog when he sits politely

    ·         reward the dog each time he comes to you

    ·         exercise him to prevent boredom

    ·         let him earn his treats as rewards

    ·         reward him for waiting at doorways

    ·         reward eye contact every time you get it

    ·         reward loose-leash walking with forward motion

                                                            DONT REWARD for:

    ·         DON'T stroke the dog if he jumps up (turn away)

    ·         DON'T chase the dog to get back your belongings

    ·         DON'T yell at the dog for barking (attention = reward)

    ·         DON'T put the bowl down while he's jumping around

    ·         DON'T scold if he runs off, then comes back (never scold when he comes to you)

    ·         DON'T punish for habits developed due to boredom

    ·         DON'T give him anything he wants because he's cute

    ·         DON'T let him barge through (slam the door shut)

    ·         DON'T let him reward himself for bad behaviors

    ·         DON'T move at all if he pulls the leash tight

     

    Some useful imformation worth sticking to, wont know id the reward the good and ignore the bad will work till i put it into action.... starting from RIGHT NOW!!...The end result is apparently a puppy that grows into a adult dog with obedience, and respect for the owner.

    Like having a baby in some respects all over again, less the 'in the night feeds'... i did it and had worse with 3 girls, so  a puppy should be like a walk in the park lol.

    Confused... maybe i should pass this onto the 'keep up with the jones' neighbour i have, who i found out the other day, has a 12week BOY puppy and barks like mad (she got her rescue dog the week after we got Solitaire)... the rest of the cul da sac has female dogs so can see problems on the horizon there maybe...watch this space hahaha !!

    2/25/2009

    Should of seen the accident waiting to happen ...maybe??

    Yesterday Soliraire jumped up at little one and bit/caught her lip, has we all know lips bleed like turning on a tap!..an over an hour later and the blood was still gushing, so it was a trip to the hospital....
    Not too pleased has i had taxi money to get there but nothing to get home with or if was sent to further hospital nothing to get there with and get back home. Luckly mum came over (thanks mum)!.

    Hospital didn't send us to further hospital has luckly little one was up to date with tetnus...although Solitaire isnt) She is now on a course of antibiotic medicine and calpol, ...Still loves solitaitre, which did worry me that the dog fear she had before getting Solitaire would be right back where it started, but no thankfully we came back yesterday and first thing she did was cuddle solitaire once the puppy had stopped going mad through being left longer than usual . *PHEW*

    Maybe if i had of put the design stuff down for a few hours and picked up the German Shephard books i bought then Solitaire would not of jumped up at little one, i do say ''no get down'' to her, but maybe no is not enough?...without reading the books or putting time aside i'm not going to know if there is another way other than the word 'no' to stop a puppy from jumping up!.

    The lip of little ones is'nt has bad has i thought, (couldnt tell with all the blood if Solitaires tooth had gone through little ones lip)..and hopfully there will be no infections set in, so all should be alright.

    To top that off could of been having a trip to the hospital myself today...
    How many times to we have to say to kids  ''DONT LEAVE THINGS IN THE STAIRS YOU'LL FALL ON THEM''????   .Thinking

    2/23/2009

    Livespace ...or undercover sex ring crackers??

    Livespace BEFORE the updates  A nice quiet place in a small corner of cybercity where i would come for some 'quiet time' just to rammble on about the goings on in my world. Adding a few livespace dead people (dead = add them but they dont communicate a simple 'hi' from time to time) and add my messenger friends, past and present so they can drop by when they wanted and see what i have been doing....livespace was a pretty easy going place to chill out in!
    ** Decent friends i have met on LIVESPACE, the BELOW  noway applies to you,**

    Livespace AFTER the updates = Only one sentence to describe livespace today,.... FREE PORN INDUSTRY !!!
     
    IS THERE A REASON WHY LIVESPACE ALLOWED THIS TO HAPPEN?
    DID LIVESPACE NOT REALIZE THAT THIS IS A FREE SITE SO IT WIL BE USED VIA ALL INCLUDING  THE PORNOGRAPHIC ONE?
    HAVE LIVESPACE DONE THIS TO GET ALL THE PORN CHAIN... ALL THE PAEDOPHILES IN ONE FREE PLACE??
     
    When i clicked on one of the links sent in one of these 'add me' REQUESTS IT SENT ME TO THE USUAL 'PORN' ..I READ IN THIS PERSONS NOTES AND FOUND THIS-
     
    ------>> http://www.couples4couples.com.au <------ Go on click on it,  or <copy>( paste into bwoser) and read what it says, then  ask yourself why a site says what it says, about being over 18 years old and then is being advertised over livespace on a persons naked photos or pornographic images /photos space and notes?  Why are these people doing the complete opposite to what they preech on the above  site??
     
     Read the below....Some other links i found on over 18 and pornography photos ect- (paste into browser) -the bottom one is interesting!

    * www.contingencytoday.com/online_article/Millions-would-be-criminalised-by-new-internet-porn-law-/1187 - 19k -



    Just a few notes for the disolusioned people-
    * UNDERAGE sexual material of ANY nature is ILLEGAL!
    * Livespace contains underage children behind photos!
    * Livespace is NOT a 'free for all  you invite'  porno site!
    * Livespace is not sexcam city!
    Livepace should take notice of the above links if it is going to allow this content to be widely thrown at people who dont want it thrown at them ! 

     
    The INTERNET PORNOGRAPHY laws in the UK-
    Established under Schedule 5 to the Broadcasting Services Act 1992, the online content scheme evolved from a tradition of Australian content regulation in broadcasting and other entertainment media. This tradition embodies the principle that – while adults should be free to see, hear and read what they want – children should be protected from material that may be unsuitable for (or harmful to) them, and everyone should be protected from material that is highly offensive. = THERE ARE UNDERAGE CHILDREN RIGHT HERE ON LIVESPACE,... ( I HAVE CHILDREN  HERE) ...  VIEWING THAT UNSUITABLE MATERIAL YOU POST  WHEN I CLICK ON YOUR 'ADD ME' REQUEST  AND I DO NOT KNOW THAT THERE IS PORNOGRAPHIC IMAGES/ MOVIES THE OTHERSIDE  !!!!!!! 
     
    Investigations into INTERNET PORNOGRAPHY-
      Between January 2000 and June 2006, ACMA received over 5,000 complaints from the public about offensive and illegal internet content resulting in the removal or blocking of almost 4,000 individual items of online content. Approximately 60% of such content was also referred to law enforcement agencies on the basis that it related to material classifiable as ‘RC’ (see below).
     
    Classification of INTERNET PORNOGRAPHY-
    the following categories of internet content are prohibited:
     
    * Content classifiable as ‘RC’ (‘refused classification’). Such content includes, for example, illegal material (such as child sexual abuse material) and other highly offensive material (such as bestiality).
     Content classifiable as ‘X18+’. Such content includes material containing real depictions of actual sexual activity.
     Content classified R18+ is not considered suitable for minors. Such content includes, for example, material containing implied (or simulated) sexual activity.

    Internet pornography will be prohibited if it falls within the ‘RC’ or ‘X18+’ classifications or  if it falls within the ‘R18+’ classification....

    The internet police site says the following-
    Boundaries and regulation
     
    Because the internet is not confined within any national or even international boundary, the way that countries around the globe deal with regulation of internet content is to apply their own legislation to an internet activity that takes place in their country.
     
    Obviously, this creates disparity in laws governing online behaviour and the control of internet content around the world.
    For example,- images which are illegal to view in the UK may not be illegal to view in Japan.
     
    Legal Framework-
    Each country has a responsibility to develop their own legislation that they can apply to internet content within their jurisdiction. 
     
    Self or co-regulation through public reporting-
    allow consumers a free public support service and offer them reassurance when using the internet.
     
    To be successful, this model requires co-operation and partnerships across the internet industry, the police and the Government!!.

    FOR ALL YOU PEOPLE WHO SEND ME ADD REQUEST WITH YOUR
    *PORN
    * KIDDIE MOVIES
    * PHOTOS WITH YOUR COMMENTS ON SOME NON SELF RESPECTING  CYBERSLUT 
    AND
    YOUR SEX ACTS ON YOUR FAMILY PET or vica versa
     
    KEEP THIS STUFF FOR WHERE IT BELONGS EITHER PRIVATLEY OR ON A OVER 18 SITE... LIVESPACE IS NOT FOR PORNOGRAPHY !!

     

    I WILL ADD YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS BELOW  FROM TODAY OF ANY 'ADD ME ' REQUEST CONTAINING THE ABOVE I RECIEVE-!! Open-mouthed

      hhhmmmsss@windowslive.com



    2/21/2009

    Ohh hell yeah, i finished it...

    FINALLY  i have finished Test paper 2 !
     
    TEST PAPER M2 :
    Answer both questions-
     
    1)- Start collecting brouchers, samples and illustrations of materials, Put them in sections in files for further reference.
    Send a description of your method of arranging and obtaining your material, with a list or index for checking. Include names of suppliers, visits to suppliers, names & address of companys, ect.
     
    The fileing system should be easy to follow and include a system of cross referencing,  (companies supply more than one product) Each sample should be dated, labelled and cross referenced to the appropriate literature.
     
    2)- Specify and illustrate by sketches, photographes or magazine cuttings, stone materials found in:
     
     a- A domestic interior (private houses ect)
     b- A contract or commercial interior (public areas)
     
    A full description of the materials characteristics and your observations on the interior effects should  accompany your answers-
    Try to find what finish and type of bonding is required in order to achieve a particular effect. (Approx 1000 words required in total- 500 words for each part)
     
    Choose two interiors that give plenty of scope for discussion and the illustrations should be discussed fully and in has much detail has possible.
    Discuss the following-
    * How the stone materials work within the interior scheme as a whole and not just in isolation.
     
    Answer should include-
    * Composition of the stone
    * Fire resistance
    * Workability
    * Suitable mortars/adhesives
    * Finishes
    * Bonding
    A biliography should be included and this should be detailed and through as possible.
     
    This question asks to look for two specif materials within both a contract and domestic situation. The answer should be presented in a professional manner and to the highest standards.
     
    It has taken me for what seems like months (think it is ) to finally complete this, better  get straight on with the next test paper has i know i am at least 6-8 weeks behind !!
     
     
    2/20/2009

    25 Random things about me....

    25 random things about me

    The rules. You are supposed to write 25 random things, trivia, habits, or goals about yourself. There’s no set of questions or requirements about what you choose to share. I’d recommend writing a blog post on your public or network-accessible space titled “25 Random Things about Me,” so it's easy to find and people in your network can comment. When you publish the post, then you can choose people in your network to notify with a link to the post or just let the “What’s New” feed do all the heavy lifting. Be sure to include these rules at the top of your post to keep it rolling. Heres my list:

    1- I am not a Devonshire girl !
    2- Not a girly girl, infact more a tomboyish kinda girl... (yup i like the boys toys)!
    3- Believe that everyone deserves a second chance...( asking for a third would be pushing to extremes)!
    4- I cry when watching Champ, even though i know what is coming up...and will still watch it again knowing that it makes me cry (mad eh)?!
    5- I will do whatever it takes to get where i want to be in life!
    6- I didn't get to be where i want to be in life today because i had children!
    7- Design is my world,
    8- That Architect's office right here where i live is my aim, my goal !
    9- To succeed with the above means shuting out the real world totally !
    10- The best thing to happen in my life- I will never forget him!..
    11-  Friends online mean has much to me has friends in the real world !
    12- I believe that if you have no love and respect for yourself then nobody else will !
    13- Life is a rollercoaster ride, enjoy every second of it...(i love theme parks, the bigger the thrill the better) !
    14-  I don't look back with regrets, ...it felt right to do at the time, then it was right !
    15- If i am wrong i am the first to say sorry !
    16- I am a thinker !
    17- I stand up for what i believe is right in life !
    18- I say what i think... (gets me into trouble at times) !
    19- I have never been married !
    20- Having doubts  = trouble,  i go with my doubts (or friends doubts) !
    21- Whilst i am proud of all the girls each and every day, i hate it when total strangers stop me in the street or shop to give compliments on the girls.. (Not good when on way to docs appointment and already late) !
    22- I cannot wait for the girls to 'grow up' and either be responsible adults to be left on their own, or of left home!
    23- In 8 years time all the girls will be teenagers!
    24- Around the age of 40, i get my 'FREEEEDOM' back!...(once the above can be applyied)
    25- Around   the time i get my 'FREEEDOM' back, i will be out there doing all the things i cannot do today!


     There is my 25 random things about me you didn' t know 5 minutes ago  Open-mouthed
         

    ... And my beliefs are
     


        




    Building Design's Virtual Careers

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    Dear Mandie

    Thank you for attending the Virtual Careers Fair. and for joining us at the BD and Building Virtual Careers Fair! 

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    Interviewees include: Paul Morrell (former Cabe deputy chairman and former senior partner at Davis Langdon), Peter Murray (former BD editor and director of the London Festival of Architecture), Richard Brindley (director of professional services RIBA), Delwar Hossain (MD of Adrem Recruitment)

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    2/19/2009

    Why is it that....?

    My day starts off great, wake up earlyier than normly would when the girls are off school to make solitaire her brekkie, ... the girls theirs, and me my morning wake up call which consists of,... one dog paw,  a large brew, a smoke and of course the net.

    Morning soon goes into dinnertime and i do the usual hike up the hill, only today was to drop the girls of at school so they could visit the theatre leaving them in the care of a lady and her husband (both work at the school) ...Well it didn't seem fair for me not to let the girls go to the theatre just because i cannot leave solitaire for hours on her own!

    An afternoon free from girls during the school holidays was also there in the list of reasons..haa peace and quiet, just me and solitaire

    ONLY

    ...I have just sat down from getting 3 girls in their beds to the point where ALL are asleep, and the kitchen is all has should be, clean and tidy, to the 'what have i done today' thoughts.

    ...And would you believe that whilst i was supposed to have those 4hrs of  'freedom no girls', enjoying the peace and quiet, having some 'ME' time, i cleaned  upstairs, cleaned the bathroom and mopped the floors Confused

    Now the question on my mind is, errr why???


     







    2/18/2009

    Building Design's virtual world.

    virtualcareers@ubm.com ... Been logged into this virtual world now for about an hour or two, very interesting if you are in the design field or wanting a career in design. Lots of usfull imformation that you can add to your briefcase and download to read at a later time.
    Has virtual buildings such has-
    * The media center, - which is a digital library full of imformation on all aspects of the design industry from Architecture - Estate management.
    * The exhibition hall - A place to visit for imformation on a career, if you are on the right path/s and they even have IM so you can chat to a person already in the industry, get career advice or pointed in the right direction if they cannot help.
    * A jobs list crammed full of jobs available all over the world- For example-
    Senior Interior Designer Job Description About Us:
    KEO International Consultants is a world ranked and leading Design, Engineering, and Project and Construction Management Consulting Firm. Founded in 1964, we deliver world-class consulting services and have expanded our regional reputation to include many global clients. KEO has offices in the Middle East and throughout the world. KEO is the fastest growing consulting firm in the region with an unparalleled reputation for professionalism.KEO offers long term career opportunities, generous expatriate salary packages and dynamic career development opportunities. In addition, KEO provides full assistance in relocation from A-Z with a team of experienced HR professionals trained to support you through the expatriation process. All applications will be treated confidentially.For a complete listing of Positions, visit www.keoic.com

    Responsibility:
    The Senior Interior Designer shall be responsible for all aspects of the Interior design process.
    Preference will be given to qualified candidates who can demonstrate experience in the following:
    • Establishing and maintaining Interior design processes and production standards and procedures.
    • Meeting design schedules and construction budgets on all Interior Design projects.
    • Producing concept sketches whilst managing the technical aspects of the project, including the selection of finishes and fittings.
    • Handling projects from concept design through to completion, including Client and Contractor liaison.

    Qualification:
    BA Degree in Interior Design or Architecture.
    Experience:
    Prior experience in the Gulf Region would be advantageous. Apply


    Interviewees include: Paul Morrell (former Cabe deputy chairman and former senior partner at Davis Langdon), Peter Murray (former BD editor, chairman of Wordsearch and director of the London Festival of Architecture), Richard Brindley (director of professional services RIBA)


    (it is at times like this i wish had chosen to stick with the career development years back instead of now at 31)!!!

    This virtual world of design is also a place to go to meet and chat others who are in the same boat so to speak has me, trying to get that career they want but have commitments that make it that much more of a challenge, more of a determination and a will to get to where we want to be in life dispite these everyday obstacles. AKA-Children!







    2/17/2009

    Can someone please explain...One of the delinqutes from livespace would be nice..

    Think we are all up to speed with livespaces new update of having messenger, livespac, hotmail and mobile all mashed into one, so all on your contacts/network know what you been doing..or not has the case may be.

    Whilst i used the messenger 9 when in beta mode, and livespace when in beta too, it was great, couldn't wait for the beata to be realeased only...

    What the hell is with these people who add and add people only to have nothing but a blank profile, no photo, no space, nothing to identify themselves in ANYWAY to the person they have sent the add request too?...but for some crazy reason want to know the answer to their question ''why wont you add me?'' huh??

    What's with the porn? the obscure photos?...Whilst we are all well aware that porn excists and is widly available over the big net, FOR FREE! However what is with that porn which some if not most would concider has obscene to the degree of calling it torture?, Why do people out there think that life consists of spending ALL day dirty camming with 'someone' they picked up via a 'Add to network' request NAFF THE HELL OFF WILL YOU... LIVESPACES IS NOT A PORNO SITE AND IF I WANTED TO BE APART OF YOUR FANTASY PORN WORLD I WOULD GO JOIN SEX IN THE UK!!! ...and no shagging dogs  or letting your dog shag me is not in my world either so go take that elsewhere too!.

    SOMEONE FROM DAM LIVESPACE SORT THIS THE NAFFING HELL OUT, I AM SICK OF SENDING COMPLAINTS TO YOU!

    and to any of you that drop my little place right here, and have porno pics, photos of your cock rammed down some girls throat, videos of kiddie porn added to your movie list, or if you are thinking of sending me a request to join your fantasy porn world


    DONT!!
    ...THIS GIRL KEEPS IT ALL FOR THE REAL WORLD!!!

    P.S- I HAVE LITTLE ONES THIS SIDE WHO DONT WANT TO BE EXPOSED TO YOUR

    DISSALUSIONED WORLD!!



     

     

    2/12/2009

    Me and solitaire- (1 week and 1 day later)

    This special little puppy, -I call her 'special' for a reason, Solitaire was the only pup born!,

    This special little  puppy has in the last week taught me that it is not me that is the one doing the teaching, it is infact (her) Solitaire that is teaching me!.
    That probably sounds very silly thing to say, after all i am the owner, i am, 'THE BOSS' ..!

    Only this little puppy, is teaching me, 'THE BOSS' that (she) Solitaire can play, can charge around the house like a mad mutt crashing into the walls has she does. Can show aggression through that play, can look totally gormless with her head on the side with that 'what did you say' look, when spoken to... Can sit looking at me has if wanting me to do something...anything, wanting me to know what it is she is thinking, BUT, can totally ignore me, 'THE BOSS'  if it so suits her!

    Solitaire is teaching me, 'THE BOSS' that either something is right..or something is wrong, There can be no partially right or partially wrong. Can be no telling her off one minute and the next time letting her get away with it!
    Solitaire is teaching me 'THE BOSS' that to train her  means -:
    1) to communicate with her,
    2) to think like her
    3) to mean what i say... (even when busy with design stuff ect)
    4) distractions= i am ignoring her
    5) lots of praise given to her,= REWARDS in return.

    Solitaire is teaching me that if she dosn't see me 'THE BOSS' has just that, then at any point she can and will become .....

                                                   'THE BOSS'!







    2/9/2009

    Dear mum...

     
    Dear Mum....
     
    I know things have not been easy over the past  years for you or anyone in this famiy, Over them past years this once close family that used to talk, go out, laugh, and cry together has been blown into pieces that may never be fixed... (Superglue even when tryed to be applyied will not work either)..ok, maybe this family ( YOUR family) will  NEVER  be able to be fixed, ...some things are just not that easy in life !
     
    It might feel has though right now you have moved and been 'dumped' in the middle of nowhere, no one visits you, no one asks you to come over, you know nobody, and theres nothing to do,  i cannot due to transport come over in the winter months,Yes it gets you down, (does me to), but come the summer where you live will be full of stuff to do, people will over time talk with you, ask you to go out with them ... like everything in life you have to make the effort, starting by walking out of your own frontdoor and getting yourself involved !
     
    We can all sit behind a net connection all day long, chatting to people from all cultures, backgrounds, and walks of life there is more to life than this crazy net or your TV !, Mum you have to switch the net off, switch your TV off and go out and find that oher life, Whilst that is all fine, and it does us good to hide away chatting over a net connection to 'someone' 'anyone' on the otherside YOU HAVE TO BE CAREFUL!....Whilst what you tell them may well be the truth,  it is what that truth contains that you tell those people  that is the problem.... Do you know the person you add and tell about the real world?! ...Do you know any thing they say is the truth about them?!... Mum you HAVE to take this net has what it is, a place where ANYONE can be ANY PERSON they want themselves to come over  has being' ...That nice sweet talking  person you may of added to your messenger, the one who promised you all , is ALL that person tells you the truth or just that persons version of how that person wants you to see him.??  How do you know, you only added that person, that person could be anyone from a rapist right down to a married person who somehow 'forgets' to let you know!!  Take the net has it is... and  TRUST NO ONE TILL YOU HAVE CHATTED WITH THEM FOR MONTHS AND MEET THEM AWAY FROM YOUR HOME ! ...YES you say you know this, of course your not stupid,...only if you can sit over a net connection alowing a stranger sat the otherside into YOUR LIFE, your real world life then  what else can you do?? 
     
    SCENARIO FOR YOU MUM- you tell a person ALL about your real world, knowing only what that person tells you over a net connection, knowing ONLY what that person sat the opposite side of that net connection WANTS to tell you, You meet that person, you then bring that person to meet your grandkids (ok, over time), that person then wants to meet your family, ..no harm in that eh, i would say that would be normal BUT and because that person knows ALL about the real world, knows ALL about everything, these girls, you or  anyone else in the family get hurt, !! why? because you never spent time...months even getting to know that person, You just added that person to your messenger sat telling all   but knowing ONLY what that person tells you about them!.   
     
    Can you see now why i am kicking off? can you see now why i said i would call the police?? can you see now why if you post ANYTHING in OPEN view of people on the net to do with the REAL WORLD, wheather that be via names, places, ANYTHING you will be associating  my 3 girls to that real world via not just the people you talk with but the people i do..other family members talk too.!
     
    What happened last month with your money i cannot say anything about, i cannot say  that person did it, or that person didnt, that doesnt mean i am taking sides that doesnt mean i do not believe you, what that means is it is nothing to do with me, i was NOT there, i had no part to play in any of it, i only have each of your storys of events that happened over that time, not one has said they took it so what do you want me to do?...  i am not involved, and whilst all are wondering why you would add to ANY site you are on, or even  be speaking to people that you  have accused of being involved in taking your money the question of why will always make all wonder,... (They thieved your money but you add them to sites, sit chatting to them over the phone, net, Huh? why!? ...Will leave the mind to boggle on that one!
     
    The rest of the family well if you are going to point them in directions of peoples profiles on sites then you can expect those family members...and their friends to 'jump on' with playing the net games, ... false profiles, (in your name, with your photo) trying to add  other family members that they dont speak with, have no involvement with to their fake profiles friend list, anything to keep the row going, keep the finger pointing at you, and keeps you informing them of what is going on each time you call them to let them know ....why? so they can sit back and laugh at you once they put the phone down!.
     
    What you need to ask yourself is why?...why would those family members who you accussed of thieving your money be wanting to get themselves involved?... why would those family members get their friends involved? (They have not spoke to you in the past 18 months) and why would those family members even be talking to you?...after all you accussed them off taking money  they say they never took!...Unless the ulteria motive of them doing that is- The more they do it, the more they look has though they are on 'your side' (has you think that way and they know it) and so the end result being YOU will tell them they must of had no involvement in what you accussed them off and at that point they can naff you off once again and get on with their lives has they was before all this!....of course laughing at you has they do!
     
    What a family member did with that girl at the weekend- First i knew was when dad told me he was on his way after  he gone to do his statement at the police station to pick that family member up, That family member knows the limits, that family member knows the bounderies,  If that family member crosses them via doing ANYTHING,  then that is THAT family members problem, and for that family member to answer too.... That family member  or the girl involved has to say what happened or didnt, That family member has to say that what you have been told is true or not,  has that family member hasnt and if that family member knows that the weekend was crossing those bounderies, that family member is not going to say  anything to family, Untill that family member says anything then what do you want me to do?
     
     
    Mum- if only you had listened when i said leave the real world where it belongs in the REAL WORLD and keep the net has a place to go to to chat with friends, play games on facebook, have a laugh, NOT to use the net to add family members friends off their friends list so you can take it upon yourself to make them aware of the real world, go posting notes on peoples profiles to make them aware (maybe you had your reasons but this is the net, a dangerouse place!!),... If you had not gone searching on websites and involving family members and their friends in that search then this ALL would not be going on now!!
    ...You cannot blame me and take it out on your grandkids for not being able to answer what you asked the other night all because i KNOW NOTHING!
     
    For god sake mum will you get it sorted, and get on with the net has you was before this happened with your money, carry on chatting with your OWN friends on facebook ect, play those games you was ,send the applications do what YOU want, but keep the real world out of  ANY of what you do untill you know a person properly over a net connection....move on and get on with YOUR life!!
     
    PS- Older one  said to tell you her tooth has at last fell out!


    commander's wife would like to know what if any  involvement you have had with her husband and if it was you that called her yesterday morning,
    ?it sems to of come from a note you posted on her husbands profile!
     


    2/5/2009

    A few things from a puppys perspective....

    Things are so much different now then they was this morning, I dont have my mum to cuddle up with anymore, although i miss her, and i cry for her sometimes, I have a new family who give me lots of cuddles, but ....

    What is this word 'no' all about.... (it's all fun to me) !
    Why am i not allowed to wee where i want to ...(isnt that what they put a floor there for)!
    I am not allowed to chew the knobs on the drawers....(they was made to chew wasnt they) !
    Jeans and trousers are not for me to grab hold of has people walk past, and hang onto .... (it is a good game though, well to me) !
    I am not allowed to nip...(So what else do they put those fingers near my nose for) !
    I'm not allowed to get on ANY bed, or in ANY bed...(will settle for next to the bed) !
    Not allowed on the sofa...(Awww that is so not fair) !
    Not allowed in the kitchen only for my food...(can we put that one to a debate, bet i win) !
    Not allowed to chew the girls hair....(But its fun..well to me) !
    Where do the girls disappear to when the word 'bed' is said ....(I sat and waited for them to come back, but they had gone) !

    First day with my new family,.. full of new things,... most starting with that word, 'no',.. but lots of love and cuddles i got! ...

    My new life starts here.Dog face