Have just ran out of things to do, so much is, has, and still is going on in the real world, i just haven't been logging in here, always end up back here though, always will. Am just at a loss with many things right now.

Problem 1-

When mum had her stroke back in March, i used the first 2 months course fees to pay petrol/bus fares/food ect to go to see her, i explained to Uni the why, all got sorted they just re-started payments on the condition that i set up a bank payment with them, so back in May i did just that!  4months later i recieved an e-mail saying i had to get intouch again, course was in errors of £300 and sum, so i got in touch again.  This time i had to pay £50 to get back on the course and again monthly course fees was re-started again, Now there is NO WAY they did not get payment, i set up an account with THESE PEOPLE  they take the course fees straight from my money, so i sat back knowing they course was getting paid...

...WRONG! The account was set up to take payment each time i got money into that account, the money was there for the Uni to take, only the Uni didn't take it has the Uni don't set up direct debit payments, instead they do it manually, anytime between the 1st of each month and the 8th of each month! The bank doesn't work on the same path has the Uni, The bank works in the manner of- Money collected from wages/income for Uni, Uni doesn't manually take that money on day the Direct Debit is set up then Uni doesn't get that cash, it goes back onto my card has money for me to spend freely...to top that off  if the Uni doesn't ask for the course fees via the set up Direct Debit, then after 3 months the Direct Debit is automatically cancelled has the computer recognises it has a 'dead direct debit' so leaving me in £600 of debt.

Has of last week my design course is no more...!!! ((will find another whilst freelancing))

Problem 2-

Have whilst all the above been going on trying to help my dad keep the roof over his head the only way i knew how!

SAFFA, C.A.B and  family, Family= a brother of dads that, hmmm, ...dad has not got on with since way way before i was born, infact the couple of thousand dad needs before the 13th December 09 of rent arrers and council tax his brother, my uncle, offered to my dad via me lastnight.... Has always the 'giving freely of money' came with a condition, the condition being that i was to tell my dad the following.

'He is to phone and ask for the money he needs, the money will be given to pay the rent and council tax arrears, once given and the roof is secured over dads head for xmas, then dad is never to bother with his mum again, have nothing to do with any will that is left when my nanna goes, and never to show his face again on that doorstep'.. Of course i called dad knowing full well already what he was going to say...worth a try though wasn't it?, well i thought it was, only no!

Cannot blame dad in many ways for telling me to tell his own brother exactlly where he can shove offer of payment tbh, the ONLY reason i call my own uncle is because he cares for my nanna if he hadn't given up his work 5 years ago, nanna would be in a care home today ! ..So dad is left with going C.A.B next Monday, the SAFFA guy coming back  again some point next week and a court date to start proceedings against dad for the house on 13th December!!. 

Problem 3-

The uncle above decides to send 'us' cheques, Us= nanna's granchildren, these cheques are monies that have been saved in a bank account since we was little, the total amount to then be split between her 6 granchildren, Ok, so said Uncle sends each of nanna's grandchildren the cheque, i call him and thank nanna, after lastnight i am sat here wondering if the payment of cheque is his way of telling us nanna hasn't got long to live, or his way of saying...that's it, that is you're intitlement don't bother turning up to the funeral, infact ...just dont bother. Strange how you only find out what a family member is really like when money is involved!!!

Haaa well, on a better note! - Little one is getting christened on the 27th December,  and, cannot remember if i told you guys?  we spend Sunday's from 1030-1330 at Matt Fiddes Martial arts/kickboxing classes. 

Untill i can think of a way to get above mess sorted out i will be hiding out over on facebook in amongst has many applications has i can to take my day up, that way i don;t have time to think of the 'real world'.

Will drop back in, just no point commenting on peeps blogs ect when my crazy head isn't here

Take care ya'll